{"id":9874,"date":"2019-05-22T11:56:59","date_gmt":"2019-05-22T16:56:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/blog\/?p=9874"},"modified":"2019-05-22T14:07:47","modified_gmt":"2019-05-22T19:07:47","slug":"5-tips-for-choosing-your-maid-of-honor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test.essensedesigns.com\/blog\/5-tips-for-choosing-your-maid-of-honor\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Tips for Choosing Your Maid Of Honor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(Cover photo: <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.welaughwelove.com\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We Laugh We Love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. featuring <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/martina-liana\/wedding-dresses\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Martina Liana<\/span><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/martina-liana\/wedding-dresses\/948\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Style 948<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Family, friends, sorority sisters, sisters-in-law &#8211; you have a wonderfully supportive girl gang, but how do you decide who to dub Maid of Honor? It\u2019s not the simplest task but it doesn\u2019t have to be so daunting; read our tips for making the right choice on your Maid of Honor:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Family First<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unless you truly have a closer relationship with a friend, our rule of thumb is always family first. However, if you have a tight-knit circle and two friends believe they should be your leading lady, pull the family card and allow each \u2018maid to help with your big decisions. This helps neutralize drama and at the end of the day, friends may come and go but your family will always be your family. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Consider the Tasks<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wedding planning is tons of fun, but it can get stressful at times. There are loads of detail that go into each pre-wedding event &#8211; and those are just the showers and parties leading up to the big day! From timelines to party planning, decorating and managing so many tasks, ask yourself: is the girl I&#8217;m considering for MOH ready to take this on? If she just started a new job, had a baby or isn\u2019t much of a planner, keep that in mind! Ask <\/span><b>her<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> if she\u2019s up for it. If you\u2019re a natural planner, comfortable and capable of handling most of these duties &#8211; then choose someone who is closest to you, no matter her skill set.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>2 &gt; 1<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Completely confused on who to choose? There\u2019s no rule that says you can\u2019t have two MOHs! You can divvy up the responsibilities and allow your #BrideTribe to assist with everything from selecting centerpieces to the cake tasting. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Maid\/Man\/Mom of Honor<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Maid of Honor role is exactly that; an honor! Give it to someone who means the world to you &#8211; no matter their gender or general wedding politics, it\u2019s your decision to make. You can choose your best guy friend, your brother, your grandmother or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/blog\/ways-to-honor-your-mother-on-your-wedding-day-from-real-brides\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your mom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Go Without<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you truly can\u2019t come to a decision on who to dub Maid of Honor, just ditch the position altogether! This is a sound option for anyone who wants to avoid drama between close friends and keep the peace. Instead of singling out one girl as \u201cextra special,\u201d spread out the wedding tasks evenly. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember this: even in times of disagreement or petty pre-wedding drama, you chose your \u2018maids based on your love for each other. As they celebrate this milestone in your life, celebrate your relationships with them. Cheers to you, your MOH and another task crossed off your to-do list! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are your bridesmaid\u2019s still on the hunt for the perfect dresses? We have a huge selection of dresses at <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/sorella-vita\/dresses\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sorella Vita<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/sorella-vita\/stores\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">find your local Sorella Vita boutique<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Looking for the perfect gifts for your bride tribe? Look no further than our latest <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.essensedesigns.com\/blog\/bride-tribe-gear-roundup\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bride Tribe Gear<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> blog.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Cover photo: We Laugh We Love. featuring Martina Liana Style 948) Family, friends, sorority sisters, sisters-in-law &#8211; you have a wonderfully supportive girl gang, but how do you decide who to dub Maid of Honor? It\u2019s not the simplest task but it doesn\u2019t have to be so daunting; read our tips for making the right [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inspiration","category-insider-tips"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v25.7.1 (Yoast SEO v25.9) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>5 Tips for Choosing Your Maid Of Honor - Pretty Happy Love - Wedding Blog | Essense Designs Wedding Dresses<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Read some tips to help you decide which friend to make your Maid of Honor.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/staging.essensedesigns.com\/blog\/5-tips-for-choosing-your-maid-of-honor\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"5 Tips for Choosing Your Maid Of Honor\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Read some tips to help you decide which friend to make your Maid of Honor.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/staging.essensedesigns.com\/blog\/5-tips-for-choosing-your-maid-of-honor\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Pretty Happy Love - 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